In contrast to women, men are more aroused by physical contact with a woman, by physical components. A woman's appearance is very important to them. While emotional components and the presence of a spiritual connection are important for women, they often turn a blind eye to physical imperfections. It is important for her to be sure that she is loved and that her partner will not leave her after sexual intercourse. Arousal itself, the desire for sex, is part of the strongest instinct - the reproductive instinct.
Everything is transparent here: if a woman becomes pregnant, she needs a man's help in raising the child. And at this point, one male can fertilize countless females. Sounds cynical, but that's natureinstinctReproduction of a male lineage: leaving behind as many healthy offspring as possible. Therefore, a man's arousal has a simpler mechanism.
How does a man experience arousal?
It's not for nothing that they say that a man can't think rationally when there's a woman around who turns him on. At that moment he actually starts to think worse. Indicators of sexual arousalfor men are:
- erection. Perhaps the most striking and obvious manifestation. But an erection doesn't just happen when you're excited, it can also simply be a full bladder or a morning erection;
- Fast pulseThis also makes breathing more frequent;
- Dilated pupils, the look itself becomes glassy;
- Changeusualtimbrevoices, he becomes hoarse and breathless;
- Redness of the skin, a strong redness may appear on the face;
The arousal can increase if sexual intercourse does not take place immediately. However, you should not prolong this game, otherwise the excitement will wear off or premature ejaculation will occur.
What exactly turns a man on?
It seems that it is enough to take off his clothes and the man is ready. But not everything is so simple and true excitement is the result of a combinationmany factors. One of them, of course, is that a man should find a woman attractive.
He states this on an animal level.He feels attractedtheir appearance, timbre, smell, facial expressions, plasticity of movements. But beyond that, certain actions, a woman's body, and even the colors of clothing can drive him into a frenzy.
Activities that inspire
There are actions by a woman that can inspire an existing passion or even create a new one:
- A woman's willingness to surrenderalways and everywhere, but only for a certain man. The realization that the partner is loose and such a treasure is only in his hands fuels the man's desire.
- Spontaneous caresses, women's initiative. If she suddenly starts stroking him herself, even in a place that is not entirely suitable for this, for example in an elevator, the man may completely lose his head.
- view. A woman's inviting look that says: "Come to me, try to conquer me, maybe I won't mind. ""
- Keep it new. Men are generally excited by anything new. A new place for possible sex, a new style of clothing for his partner, her new perfume, her hairstyle.
- Stimulation of erogenous zones. Men have fewer of them than women, but they still exist. In addition to intimate places, these are most often the neck, the auricle and the stomach.
- Wear sexy clothes. Whatever one may say, certain items of clothing excite men, even if they are not appropriate everywhere. These are mainly tight clothing made of thin fabric or leather, short minis and a deep neckline.
- gait, in which the hips sway and the chest sways, will definitely delight a man.
- Nice plasticdanceGirl with a beautiful figure. Especially when she slowly takes off her clothes.
Female body and arousal
First, a man perceivesOverall picture, as the totality of all physical data. And when the picture catches his eye, he looks at it and notes the details. Looking at certain parts of the body has a particularly stimulating effect.
This is the case most oftenButt and breasts. Of course, there are aesthetes who are enthusiastic about ankles or ears, but this is more of a specialty. What excites you more is very individual, some may be more aroused by their breasts, others more by their buttocks. Many people still get excited about their stomach and not the abdominal muscles, but a small, soft tummy.
Sex positions
The preference of poses dependstemperamentin bed and how expensive your partner is.
- Missionary position. If it's sex between people who really miss each other, the man will most likely be more attracted to this position. This way he can caress the breasts, caress the hair and face, and kiss the woman on the lips.
- Like a dogorDoggy style. There is something animalistic about this position and this moment excites a man during sex.
- Girl on top, both facing the partner and vice versa. At the moment of intercourse, the woman controls everything: the depth of insertion, the pace and the time at which she stops, everything depends on her, that's what's special about this position. And the prospect that opens up to a person will not leave him indifferent.
- Near the wall. There is something cinematic about this pose. Men love this position for its entertainment value, although it is not very comfortable in itself and the introduction is not maximum.
It is also particularly important that a man likes to see his partner during sex and therefore prefers all positions in which as many details as possible of what is happening are visible. And the light should be on, and the partner should be completely undressed.
What colors can excite a man?
A naked body excites you at the very moment of sex. However, before that, a man is interested in undressing a woman first down to her underwear and then completely. It is also importantwhat colorShe will carry toiletries and underwear.
When choosing underwear and clothing, women should know what excites men the mostRed,BlackAndpurpleColors of underwear and clothing. These colors promise a man experience and sensuality in bed. AWhiteAndbeigeColors delight those who like very young, inexperienced girls.
Why men are aroused by women's breasts
It's no secret that lush and high breasts appeal to almost all men. But if you think about it, what's so special about it? For example, why doesn't another part of the body turn on? In terms ofbiology- that is the biggest mystery, in other mammals the breasts only enlarge before feeding and they do not attract males, only young ones. And in sexually mature women it is always increased and men react to it with excitement.
Reasonsthere can be several:
- In women, the nipples and the breasts themselves are the strongesterogenous zone, and men want to arouse women by caressing their breasts.
- It is customary for people to hide their breasts, and the forbidden fruit is sweet.
- Only people have sex in front of each other.
- Breasts are somethingdiffersMan and woman and what is associated with female warmth.
- And most likely this is the pointinstinctprocreation. The main purpose of the breast is to nourish babies. And a woman's large breasts subconsciously tell her that she will feed her offspring well. But honestly, this isn't always the case in reality; the amount of milk does not depend on the size of the breast. This is what unconsciously attracts men. After all, the desire for copulation is the desire to continue the breed and leave offspring.