The partner's readiness for intimacy cannot only be determined by the condition of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to know what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man was aroused easily and by other, often not so direct, signs.
Nonverbal signals
Wanted or not, a man shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex through outward manifestations of the behavior and reactions of the body. Nonverbal messages from a partner help understand their condition and willingness to have intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks of his desire. This "mirroring" is a clear symptom of passion and the desire for a closer relationship.
In communication, a passionate man tries to get closer, to reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is carried out automatically without consciousness. In addition, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, make physical contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner develops an offensive without observing the rules of propriety.
Contact will be more casual, light and non-obsessive, but the excitement that a man feels during such contact can be clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental as she sees the persistence and a certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record outward manifestations in a man's behavior. In the moment of excitement, he tries to straighten his shoulders, pull in his stomach, put his figure in a favorable light. Often the partner begins to lick his lips in excitement, grabbing his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
A man's non-verbally manifested signs of arousal can be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - move a chair, open a door, carry something or serve;
- he tries to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation a man tries to make light physical contact;
- a man burning with passion for a woman will do his best to be alone with her more often.
Poses of a man
The need to show sexual attraction in an implicit way arose at a time of strict rules and regulations when attitudes to the intimate process were taboo by moral codes and church standards. Both the man and the woman had to demonstrate their willingness to act to their partner without fear of publicity and public censure. In such cases, non-verbal signals made it possible to learn preferences and desires.
Wanting a woman and not showing her is wrong from the normal man's point of view. Therefore, a potential partner tries, unconsciously or unconsciously, to demonstrate his interest in the object of desire through sexual gestures and postures.
The man shows most gestures and postures on the reflex level without being aware of his sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them show clear interest, others are more hidden and will only be read by a sociable girl.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he involuntarily begins to give out an "alpha male". It describes the readiness for sexual intercourse with self-confident postures and shows a high tone of the physical condition of one's own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man stretches his back and stretches his shoulders;
- tries to pull in the stomach deeper;
- when a man is standing, his legs are shoulder width apart, which shows particular stability and a strong position;
- it is also important to keep track of the position of the socks on the man's shoes. If he is interested in an attractive person, they will be forwarded to that woman.
- when a man sits in a chair, he involuntarily spreads his legs, as if demonstrating his own genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man who wants to take possession of a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys in rutting and mating games, which points to the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man begins straightening his clothes and hair in hopes of attracting the woman's attention with his appearance. Instead of an edgy and heavy gait, he moves fast like an athlete while correcting figure flaws, straightening up and removing the belly. A shine appears in the eyes, the skin on the face is automatically tightened, and bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable to a friend.
Today such a gesture is rarely used and many have already forgotten it, but fifty years ago, thumbs behind a trouser belt meant a rude, conspicuous act towards a woman aimed at demonstrating her own genitals.
The delay in the man's gaze at the object of his pleasure says a lot. If he looks a woman in the eyes a little longer than the etiquette dictates, it shows his excitement and willingness to be in closer contact.
The position of the hands on the hips shows a woman the physical superiority of a man over other rivals, his power and strength, and therefore his willingness to procreate.
It is interesting that women are more sensitive to manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a possible partner, while a man may not understand the sympathy that the girl shows him for a long time.
Physical manifestations
A man's state of arousal is expressed not only by an erection of the penis, but also by other, often not so obvious, physiological signs.
A passionate man often smooths the details of his clothes, unties the tie knot that literally begins to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the timbre of the voice can become deeper, the view is clouded, the pulse accelerates, the blood pressure jumps. Characteristics of behavior during this period are very difficult to hide from outside attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman immediately perceives and consciously takes note of such signs.
A man can be aroused not only by direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The coming wave of passion grips the partner and their behavior changes depending on their temperament and hormone levels. General signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which symptomatically resemble a state of stress. In addition to faster breathing and heartbeat, there are changes in voice and pressure, increased muscle tone, dilation of the pupils and increased salivation.
During an erection, a clear liquid is released from the penis that does not contain sperm, but is a type of lubricant that you can use to penetrate the woman's vagina with little effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the glans in the form of a drop.
The fat comes from the Cooper glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- it removes the urine residue in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for semen delivery;
- the lubricant allows you to have friction during intercourse without damaging the sensitive skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual body characteristics of the man and can range from a small droplet to 5 ml. The main purpose of excreting this fluid is to create a favorable environment for a child to conceive. Neutralizing the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of sexual arousal in a man is an erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma and the organ increases noticeably in length and width.
The change in penis size in the erect state from the usual depends on the individual characteristics of the male body, but it has been found that a small penis enlarges more significantly than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, which ensures its penetration into the woman's vagina, the man is already completely ready for coitus at this point and the passion flares up even more.
When penetrating a woman's bosom, the man's body becomes even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. The heart rate rises, the muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to curb the passion.
The climax of intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and is created by the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate as the seminal fluid of the urethra is filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm may make abrupt noises and moan. The amount of semen depends on the constitution of the person and the duration of the abstinence.